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		<title>Swinging For The Single Male</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 21:40:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever considered swinging for the single male? Are you tired of all the games women play? You&#8217;re on your first date, you have a couple of drinks, and the flirting begins. You shoot a little pool and the flirting escalates. The sexual innuendos are flying. She&#8217;s touching you, unbuttoning your shirt a little, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever considered <a href="http://www.swingingsinglemale.com/swinging-for-the-single-male/">swinging for the single male?</a> Are you tired of all the games women play?  You&#8217;re on your first date, you have a couple of drinks, and the flirting begins.  You shoot a little pool and the flirting escalates.  The sexual innuendos are flying.  She&#8217;s touching you, unbuttoning your shirt a little, she even grabs your ass (to make you miss that pool shot).  You&#8217;re sure she will be going home with you.  When it&#8217;s time to go home you walk her to her car and she tells you, &#8220;I never kiss on the first date&#8221;!</p>
<p>Has this ever happened to you?  Everything seems great but she doesn&#8217;t even give you a kiss.  Do all women play these &#8220;games&#8221;?  You aren&#8217;t looking for a relationship right now.  You just want some &#8220;no strings attached&#8221; fun.  Have you ever considered <a href="http://www.swingingsinglemale.com/swinging-for-the-single-male/">swinging for the single male?</a></p>
<p>What is swinging?  Swinging is when a couple wants to add a little &#8220;spice&#8221; to their bedroom and they are open to having sex with others.  This can be either with another couple, another single female or with a single male (or maybe even with all the above).</p>
<p>Many couples have fantasies that they want to actually experience instead of just dreaming about them.   They fantasize about threesome, foursomes, role playing, and many more things too numerous to mention.  Wouldn&#8217;t you like to share in their fantasies?</p>
<p>How do you get involved and welcomed into the swinging lifestyle?  There are many things that the single male needs to know and understand before you will be welcomed into the lifestyle.  That&#8217;s exactly what the <a href="http://www.swingingsinglemale.com/swinging-for-the-single-male/">&#8220;Swinging For The Single Male&#8221;</a> video course covers in depth.  So if you are interested in learning more and helping many couples and single women live out their fantasies and living out your own fantasies, take a close look at <a href="http://www.swingingsinglemale.com/swinging-for-the-single-male/">&#8220;Swinging For The Single Male&#8221;.</a></p>
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		<title>Adult Fun For Swingers!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 21:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you looking for some party games for adult fun at your next swinger party? There are a lot of traditional party games that can be given an adult twist that you should consider. Of course, there is always strip poker and all you need is a deck of cards and some clothing to get [...]]]></description>
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<p>Are you looking for some party games for adult fun at your next swinger party? There are a lot of traditional party games that can be given an adult twist that you should consider. Of course, there is always strip poker and all you need is a deck of cards and some clothing to get things started.</p>
<p>If you have a pool table, strip pool can liven things up. It makes missing a shot that much more interesting.</p>
<p>Naked twister is another alternative and will get the adult fun started very quickly. Just imagine all those naked bodies rubbing up against you as you reach for that next color! It also makes for some very interesting positions. Who knows, you may even discover a new position or two!</p>
<p>Then there is the classic Spin The Bottle&#8221;. For real adult fun you can include removing an article of clothing along with the kiss or you can make up your own rules as well. Have fun with this one!</p>
<p>Truth or Dare has always been a favorite swinger party game. You can admit something naughty you have done or dare to do something kinky. Your choice since it is Truth or Dare.</p>
<p>How about Strip Karaoke? Have two people compete against each other and whoever is voted as the best singer by the others gets to remove an article of clothing from the loser.</p>
<p>All of these adult fun games are a blast at any swinger party. Try a few of them or all of them out at your next swinger party and let the adult fun begin!</p>
<p>For more info on &#8220;Swinging For The Single Male&#8221; visit: <a href="http://www.swingingsinglemale.com/swingingmalevideo">SwingingSingleMale.com/swingingmalevideo</a></p>
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		<title>How To Please A Woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2011 17:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you know how to please a woman sexually?  You would be surprised at how many men think they know how but truly don&#8217;t. Women expect men to be able to please them.  Sexual satisfaction is something that has always been important to women but usually doesn&#8217;t get realized.  If you truly know how to [...]]]></description>
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<p>Do you know how to please a woman sexually?  You would be surprised at how many men think they know how but truly don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Women  expect men to be able to please them.  Sexual satisfaction is something  that has always been important to women but usually doesn&#8217;t get  realized.  If you truly know how to please a woman, she will become  sexually addicted to you.  The great thing is, being a great lover in  bed is not about size, its about knowing how to use what you have.  So  no matter what size penis you have, you can sexually satisfy any woman  just by learning a few good techniques.</p>
<p>Here is  something you may not realize about women.  In order to please her  sexually, you must first stimulate her mind.  Whereas men are visual,  women are verbal.  If you can&#8217;t stimulate her verbally, there is no way  you will get her clothes off.  Think about it.  Why do you think there  are so many romance novels written?  Who reads romance novels?  I don&#8217;t  know any men that read romance novels, do you?  Women read romance  novels because it stimulates their sexual mind.  If you can drive her  wild with your words, it doesn&#8217;t matter what you look like, her clothes  will peel right off, guaranteed.</p>
<p>Do you have sexual  confidence?  How do you get sexual confidence?  You get sexual  confidence by knowing numerous techniques to please a woman, any woman.   There are many techniqes to please a woman but the real problem is that  most men do them wrong!  Even kissing!  Most men don&#8217;t really know how a  woman wants to be kissed.  They know how they want to be kissed but not  how a woman really wants to be kissed.</p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it be  nice to have a woman teach you how she wants to be kissed?  Well, since  most women expect you to already know how to please her, she probably  isn&#8217;t going to teach you.  However, there are a couple of women who make  a living by teaching men how to sexually satisfy a woman!  These woman  sexual educators and are pretty well know.  As a matter of fact, you  have probably seen one of them since she was a 2011 runner up for  Penthouse Pet of the Year!  Her name is Ryan Keely.</p>
<p>Ryan  has one of the best video training couses I have seen for teaching men  how to satisfy any woman and make her sexually addicted to you.  It is  called the <a href="http://www.validate.com/go/ryan/">&#8220;Porn Star Sex Life Incredible Video Series&#8221;</a>.  If you are serious about learning how to please a woman, you really need to check it out at <a href="http://www.validate.com/go/ryan/"> http://www.validate.com/go/ryan/</a></p>
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		<title>The Man’s Approach – Meeting Women Demystified</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 19:02:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ask any guy what his #1 challenge is when it comes to women and he’ll tell you: It’s gathering up the courage to actually approach them and start conversations with them. Indeed, the issue is nothing short of pandemic worldwide, attested to by the ever-increasing number of “pickup artist” training courses available out there. But [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ask any guy what his #1 challenge is when it comes to women and he’ll tell you: It’s gathering up the courage to actually approach them and start conversations with them.</p>
<p>Indeed, the issue is nothing short of pandemic worldwide, attested to by the ever-increasing number of “pickup artist” training courses available out there.</p>
<p>But wait a minute. What if a particular guy isn’t exactly so interested in becoming a “pickup artist”? What if he’s a pretty “normal” guy who’d simply like to have a great girlfriend, and perhaps even a terrific wife someday?</p>
<p>The truth is if you’re that guy, you’re still going to have to actually meet the woman of your dreams before you can build a relationship with her, right?</p>
<p>Given the obvious truth of that statement, it’s altogether remarkable that there has never been a comprehensive plan on how to meet high quality women in particular, start conversations with them and make plans to see them again.<a href="https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2837542&amp;referrer=gethotdates"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-330" title="The Man's Approach" src="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/mansapproach250.png" alt="" width="250" height="250" /></a><a href="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/tmamedium.png"></a></p>
<p>Until now, that is…</p>
<p>Enter Scot McKay. Now not only is Scot one of the world’s most respected and well-known dating coaches, he happens to be married to a great woman, fellow dating coach Emily McKay. Scot calls her his “proof of concept”.</p>
<p>So what’s a married dating coach have to teach you about meeting women and starting conversations with them?</p>
<p>It’s really very simple. Scot met a whole lot of women and built a wildly successful dating life, enjoying the process immensely before ultimately meeting Emily and building a great life with her.</p>
<p>And when you get around to it, isn’t that what just about every guy really wants?</p>
<p>When you think about it, that makes Scot the quintessentially perfect guy to teach the kind of mission-critical skills covered in his latest program, which he quite appropriately calls The Man’s Approach.</p>
<p>You guessed it. Scot’s new program is the one “regular” guys all over the world have been waiting for all along.</p>
<p>Not only does Scot cut through all the “tricks” and “tactics” to give you what he calls a “character-based” approach to, well…approaching, he focuses on helping guys like you meet only the world’s finest women. We’re talking about the one’s with the whole package…the ones with true “long-term potential”.</p>
<p>So if Scot’s the right guy to teach this stuff, then you might be asking, “What took him so long?”.</p>
<p>Well, ask Scot himself, and he’ll readily admit that for several years he felt there was already more than enough content out there on how to meet women. It was only after the guys in his audience persistently hammered him to produce a program like The Man’s Approach that the proverbial “light bulb” went on.</p>
<p>Although there were literally hundreds of “pickup” courses out there, every single guy who WASN’T interested in being a PUA had no real, solid resource to turn to.</p>
<p>The Man’s Approach is the resulting “magnum opus” after months and months of hard work by Scot and his team. I have to tell you, it’s one action-packed program that contains absolutely zero &#8220;fluff&#8221;. And considering the track record Scot brings to the table, I&#8217;d say we really do indeed have exactly the right man for the job teaching this stuff…finally.</p>
<p>When I got my copy I couldn’t wait to tear into it and see exactly what was included. And I wasn’t disappointed. As is always the case, Scot over delivers on content at a reasonable price. Even the order process is smooth as silk, and nobody can beat his outrageous 365-day money back guarantee.</p>
<p>But chances are that when you snap up your own copy of The Man’s Approach you’ll likely not be looking for a refund anytime soon.</p>
<p>Inside the Member’s Area you’ll find ten full-length audio programs that average out to about an hour each. They cover a logically laid-out plan for getting over the fear of meeting women, starting conversations with them, creating attraction and making plans to see them again.</p>
<p>One of the criticisms of Scot’s programs in the past, albeit a minor one, is that they haven’t necessarily been structured in a way that gives you a clear-cut order for assimilating the content. That’s not at all an issue in The Man’s Approach.</p>
<p>A particular facet of the audio programs that I applaud Scot for is his coverage of where to meet great woman, how to handle particularly challenging approach situations and how to turn women in your social circle into “more than a friend”. These are all highly important areas that go way beyond the actual “process” of meeting women.</p>
<p>But as Scot himself often says, “good enough just isn’t good enough”. So he has included what he calls “Extra Value Modules”, covering such provocative topics as how women themselves define masculinity, how to make women physically aroused sexually, and—my personal favorite of them all—“date replacing” escapades that make women want to touch you first.</p>
<p>You’ve just got to love that measure of creativity Scot adds there. There’s just a perfect balance between covering the necessary fundamentals and blowing the roof off the place with some truly groundbreaking concepts and practical ideas that NOBODY has ever talked about before.</p>
<p>And then, of course, there’s VIDEO. After all, what kind of self-respecting “meet women” program of any kind would leave that out?</p>
<p>Well, Scot over delivers in this area also. There are a whopping dozen videos in The Man’s Approach, offering a nice combination of live demos and interviews. Scot features several women in the videos, and let’s just say they’re all pretty darned easy on the eyes…not to mention total sweethearts. Then again, what else would you expect from a guy like Scot when casting such videos?</p>
<p>Now I do have to say you’re going to have to prepare yourself for a clearly different approach to doing videos than you’ll find in “pickup “ programs. Although that’s not surprising, considering The Man’s Approach is truly set apart from that sort of thing, don’t expect “in field pickup” footage or “kiss closes”. Thankfully, however, you don’t have to watch carefully scripted “actors” either.</p>
<p>The format Scot used was to bring his cast of real people to an outdoor location, give them particular scenarios to demonstrate…and then simply let them do their thing. Afterwards, Scot breaks down the good points of the interactions and offers input to make it even better, often with a second “take” following. In many ways it takes a knowledgeable yet empathetic dating coach to pull off a format like that…and that description fits Scot pretty accurately.</p>
<p>Viewers of the videos in The Master Plan have to go in with the right expectations. Don’t expect “Hollywood” polish or even the crystal-clear sound quality of Scot’s audio programs. Going “natural” necessarily brought with it the trade off of occasional ambient noise and players who aren’t exactly “media trained”.</p>
<p>Further, Scot decided to keep the camera rolling no matter what during the videos, so each one is ONE TAKE…no “jump cuts” to be found. Through the resulting imperfections, however, it’s easily to see that you’re (perhaps for the first time ever, finally) getting a genuine, real-world perspective on how to actually apply what Scot’s teaching. And if you ask me, that’s what it’s really all about. Ultimately, I give Scot’s way of doing video a big “thumbs up”.</p>
<p>So you’ve got ten audios, three “Extra Value Modules” and ten videos in The Man’s Approach. But there’s even MORE on top of that. Just for good measure, Scot has added in a dozen premium special reports that cover particular nuances of meeting and attracting women that aren’t covered elsewhere. And in typical trademark fashion, Scot also forks over a dozen bonuses—all of which could easily stand alone as a separate premium offering, no doubt</p>
<p>Overall, The Man’s Approach delivers the goods at a great price…exactly as expected. And by the way, just like for all other X &amp; Y Communications products, The Man’s Approach is delivered via Member’s Area the same day you purchase it. This keeps the value high and the costs low. Each audio is very “iPod friendly”, by the way…featuring logical titles an unique album art. That’s a very welcome detail that’s unfortunately missing from other shops’ offerings.</p>
<p>For all the details on The Man’s Approach and to get your very own copy,  just click the banner below:</p>
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		<title>Writing An Online Personal Ad</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Aug 2010 05:12:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a rule I want you guys out there to remember: Don&#8217;t be afraid to scare away the women you don&#8217;t want. Sounds kind of obvious, but you&#8217;d be amazed how many guys are trying to create the profile that wins them all. Or they go into this with the idea that they can avoid [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a rule I want you guys out there to remember: Don&#8217;t be afraid to scare away the women you don&#8217;t want.</p>
<p>Sounds kind of obvious, but you&#8217;d be amazed how many guys are trying to create the profile that wins them all. Or they go into this with the idea that they can avoid offending anyone.</p>
<p>Life is hard. Wear a cup.</p>
<p>As I like to say.</p>
<p>So, when writing your profile, write it with the person in mind you want to read it and go, &#8220;Hey, that&#8217;s cool&#8230;&#8221; Write with your audience in mind.</p>
<p>Now, let me clear something up right now:<a href="https://morpheus.infusionsoft.com/go/dbb/hotdates"><img class="alignright" title="Attract Hot Women NOW!" src="http://www.alphaconfidence.com/affiliates/neriba/dbb300x250.gif" alt="" width="300" height="250" /></a></p>
<p>No matter how much or how clearly you write what you WANT in your profile, you will have tons of women read it and THINK that&#8217;s them &#8211; or WANT to think that it&#8217;s them.</p>
<p>In other words, saying what you want doesn&#8217;t get you what you want online. It&#8217;s not like making a grocery list. You&#8217;ll get women who are 20-30 pounds overweight who haven&#8217;t seen a gym since sixth grade writing you, even though you asked for someone who you can &#8220;workout with.&#8221;</p>
<p>It never ceases to amaze me what I used to get all the time. It got so bad I almost wanted to start writing:</p>
<p>&#8220;ALL FAT BROADS NEED NOT APPLY.&#8221;</p>
<p>Kinda harsh, but come on, man. What part of &#8220;athletic build&#8221; did you not understand?</p>
<p>So, with that in mind, here&#8217;s the way you need to construct your profile:</p>
<p><strong>Make it FUN.</strong></p>
<p>Just go crazy with it. Have a blast. Don&#8217;t worry about getting all specific about your description so that you get the perfect woman. The fact is that the woman that will match you will probably not really match her own profile after you get to know her.</p>
<p>Sad truth.</p>
<p>So what you have to do is just inject your profile with a bunch of fun stuff that she&#8217;ll latch on to and go with.</p>
<p>You see, you want the kind of woman who responds to a fun and offbeat profile. (At least I hope so.) You want a woman with a sense of humor and adventure.</p>
<p>And that kind of woman WILL respond to a more laid back and less specific profile.</p>
<p>Face it &#8211; you&#8217;ll probably end up screening out most of them on the phone anyway, so why try to do too much unnecessary work in your online information? It doesn&#8217;t work, so you might as well cast a wider net.</p>
<p>Plus, when guys state what they want in their profiles, women actually LOOK to exclude themselves based on their INTERPRETATION of what you said.</p>
<p>And we know how well they do that.</p>
<p>And remember that you can&#8217;t TELL her you&#8217;re this or that (such as a &#8220;bad boy&#8230;&#8221;)</p>
<p>A real bad boy would never SAY it.</p>
<p>Instead you must SHOW it. With your words and your cocky attitude.</p>
<p><strong>Try this:</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;So if you&#8217;re the kind of girl that likes eating fruit off the tree, or off the stomach of a really close buddy, or you just like to lick your fingers and pretend, I won&#8217;t tell&#8230; Or maybe you&#8217;re the kind of girl who&#8217;s daring enough to jump in a cool lake on a hot day with her clothes on &#8230; So why are you still reading this? Send me an email! The worst thing that could happen is that you fall madly in love with my dimples and start stalking me. Wait, on second thought&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>See how that works? I just totally riffed that off the top of my head, and I&#8217;m sure it shows, but it&#8217;s unique and it doesn&#8217;t scream out NEEDY WUSS. It stands out.</p>
<p>Now all you have to do is come up with some of these on your own. It&#8217;s not hard. Just sit down and start typing some experimental stuff into your computer.</p>
<p>Remember, if it doesn&#8217;t work, you can always revise and change it. Nothing is permanent in cyberspace.</p>
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		<title>How to Get a Woman&#8217;s Phone Number Within 3 Mins of Meeting</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 19:17:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How To Get A Woman&#8217;s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her By David DeAngelo Let me start off by telling you something interesting: I&#8217;ve personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I&#8217;ve found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course). Let [...]]]></description>
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<td width="520"><strong><span style="font-family: Georgia; color: #cc0000; font-size: large;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">How<br />
To Get A Woman&#8217;s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes<br />
Of Meeting Her</span></span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,times new       roman,times,serif;"><strong><span style="font-size: x-small;">By David DeAngelo</span></strong></p>
<div><span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: x-small;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><br />
Let me start off by telling you something interesting:</span></span></div>
<p></span><span style="font-family: Georgia; font-size: x-small;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">I&#8217;ve personally stopped focusing on just<br />
getting phone numbers. I&#8217;ve found that EMAIL addresses are far better<br />
(I still get the phone number too, of course).</p>
<p>Let me explain.</p>
<p>I perfected the art of getting phone numbers<br />
a couple of years ago.</p>
<p>If a woman is single, I can walk up to her<br />
and get her number in about a minute or two (if I&#8217;m in a hurry). I<br />
found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this that<br />
GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT&#8217;T EQUAL SUCCESS.</p>
<p>You see, women have many different reasons<br />
for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having<br />
a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually<br />
interested. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my<br />
personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in<br />
person.</p>
<p>When you call a woman for the first time,<br />
she&#8217;ll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude.<br />
It&#8217;s almost like she&#8217;s a different person than the one you met.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found that getting an EMAIL address is<br />
not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on. It&#8217;s<br />
almost as if women appreciate it that you&#8217;ve taken the time to think<br />
about what you&#8217;re going to say when you write an email to them, and<br />
they think of you more like someone they know.</p>
<p>The other benefit of email is that it can be<br />
written and answered anytime.</p>
<p>If you call, you have to actually reach them.<br />
But an email can be answered anytime. And I&#8217;ve found that emails are<br />
answered FAR more often than voicemail messages.</p>
<p>HERE&#8217;S THE HOW TO:</p>
<p>After I&#8217;ve talked to a woman for about 3 or 4<br />
minutes, I&#8217;ll often say something like &#8220;Well, it was nice meeting<br />
you. I&#8217;m going to get back to my friends.&#8221;</p>
<p>They usually don&#8217;t know what to do, as<br />
they&#8217;re used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say<br />
&#8220;It was nice meeting you too&#8230;&#8221; Then, just as I&#8217;m<br />
turning to walk away, and we kind of disconnect, I turn back and say<br />
&#8220;HEY! Do you have email?&#8221;</p>
<p>The &#8220;HEY!&#8221; is a bit surprising, and<br />
&#8220;Do you have email&#8221; is non-threatening. In fact, I&#8217;m<br />
technically asking her if she HAS email, not if she&#8217;ll GIVE IT TO ME.</p>
<p>If she says &#8220;yes,&#8221; I take out a pen<br />
and paper and say &#8220;Great, write it down for me&#8221; and I have<br />
her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the &#8216;yes&#8217; that they<br />
give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they&#8217;ve almost ALL<br />
gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE&#8217;S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I<br />
say &#8220;Write your number down there too.&#8221;</p>
<p>When you ask for email, it&#8217;s very low risk<br />
for a woman, so she&#8217;ll think &#8220;Fine, I&#8217;ll do that.&#8221; Most<br />
women will give out an email address without thinking about it,<br />
because they know that they can choose later to just not answer.</p>
<p>The magic of asking them to write their phone<br />
number down WHILE they&#8217;re in the middle of writing down their email is<br />
all about the psychology of human behavior.</p>
<p>She&#8217;s already mentally said &#8220;OK, I&#8217;ll<br />
give you my email address&#8221;&#8230; and she&#8217;s in the middle of writing<br />
it down. When you say &#8220;And just write your number down there<br />
too&#8221; it&#8217;s only NATURAL to just write it.</p>
<p>In other words, it&#8217;s a MUCH smaller step than<br />
giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to<br />
figure out this simple move, but it works like magic! You will have<br />
women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a great add-on to make sure you&#8217;re<br />
getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail:</p>
<p>As she&#8217;s writing down her phone number I say<br />
&#8220;Is this a number that you actually answer?&#8221; If she looks at<br />
me and hesitates, or says that it&#8217;s her &#8220;voicemail or pager<br />
number,&#8221; then I say &#8220;Look, write your real number down. It&#8217;s<br />
going to be OK, I&#8217;ll only call you nine times a day&#8230;&#8221; They<br />
laugh and usually give me their real number.</p>
<p>Now, if she answers my first question and<br />
says &#8220;No, I don&#8217;t have email&#8221; then I bust on them and say<br />
&#8220;Well, do you have electricity?&#8221; This is a GREAT opportunity<br />
to use humor.</p>
<p>Then I say &#8220;Well, OK then. I like email<br />
better, but I&#8217;ll take your regular phone number. It&#8217;s so damn hard to<br />
reach people on the phone these days.&#8221;</p>
<p>Just realize that all you have to do is ask.</p>
<p>Like I said, I&#8217;ve tried all kinds of things.<br />
And I&#8217;ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact<br />
sequence every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone<br />
number. I&#8217;ve gotten to the point where I can often do this in a minute<br />
or two &#8211; no kidding!</p>
<p>Now that you know the sequence, write it down<br />
with the words and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and<br />
over until you know exactly what to say for each step and each<br />
response.</p>
<p>Many guys have asked me &#8220;But what do I<br />
tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?&#8221; I&#8217;ve never<br />
had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why<br />
you asked. If she doesn&#8217;t give it to you, then she also knew why you<br />
asked.</p>
<p>Just assume that this is the case.</p>
<p>If you ask every time, and you do it in a<br />
smooth, assuming, calm way, you&#8217;ll get a lot of emails and phone<br />
numbers.</p>
<p>Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I<br />
prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it&#8217;s small, classy, and<br />
women love it!</p>
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		<title>How Do I Get Girls To Notice Me?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 19:14:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We want to stand out in a crowd. Every man wants to walk into a bar and have all the heads turn to look at him, and it IS possible. You just have to learn how to differentiate yourself from the rest.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s break it down into the three different ways you can make yourself noticeable:</p>
<p>- Your actions</p>
<p>- Your appearance</p>
<p>- Your words</p>
<p><strong>ACTIONS:</strong></p>
<p>There&#8217;s a saying that &#8220;What you are speaks so loudly that I can&#8217;t hear you.&#8221;<a href="https://morpheus.infusionsoft.com/go/carlosxuma/hotdates" target="_blank"><img class="alignright" title="Be a bad boy" src="http://www.carlosxuma.com/bad-boy-nice-guy/banners/BBFBanner-300x250-b.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="250" /></a></p>
<p>This means that your actions are what will ultimately make you the most noticeable &#8230; or the least noticeable. The guys that are passive and hang back in a crowd (usually the introverts) are those who are least appealing to women. The men who are active in their environment stand out. They&#8217;re leaders.</p>
<p>So, how can you stand out?</p>
<p>Take it slow.</p>
<p>Move slowly but deliberately. Carry yourself like a suave man would. Watch all the old James Bond movies. You never see James move in a jerky, hyper fashion. He knows exactly the right pace to fight, drink, walk, and make love. He moves like a wily predator, and he always gets his prey.</p>
<p>The best action you can take, though, is to forget your irrational fear of rejection and simply approach women. Just walking up and saying &#8220;Hi&#8221; is more than most men ever do. Women will respond to a man who goes after what he wants. Take the initiative!</p>
<p><strong>APPEARANCE:</strong></p>
<p>Women are very visual by nature, contrary to some beliefs. (Just because they don&#8217;t respond to porn as a turn-on doesn&#8217;t mean they aren&#8217;t visually stimulated. It&#8217;s just that they need to see more emotionally-charged images.)</p>
<p>So how do you use this to your advantage to get women to notice you?</p>
<p>First of all, you don&#8217;t have to look like a Calvin Klein model to attract women. Just take the time to groom your appearance. Here are a few tips:</p>
<p>- Get a good haircut. Women can see when you take pride in your appearance, and a good haircut (nothing less than $25-30) will show it. Also, get rid of any unnecessary hair &#8211; nose, ears, back.</p>
<p>- Buy clothes that fit well and suit you in color. If you don&#8217;t know what looks good, ask any cute salesclerk in any department store to help you out. (And don&#8217;t forget to get her number.) Also, get nice shoes and a belt to round it out. Good style isn&#8217;t very difficult.</p>
<p>- Take care of your skin. Smooth skin and appealing lips will make a woman want to touch you. Why not make it easy for her?</p>
<p><strong>WORDS:</strong></p>
<p>Women are tuned into speech, and they respond to a man who can effectively use words to draw them in.</p>
<p>What do you say? Well, first of all, speak slowly, the same way you move. It shows a man of careful thought, who won&#8217;t be careless with his woman. Be sure to use words that stand out. Use exciting words, like:</p>
<p>- tingling</p>
<p>- pleasure</p>
<p>- sensual</p>
<p>- radiant</p>
<p>- passion</p>
<p>These words will elicit charged states with women, as they do in those sappy romance novels. They will work for you, too. A firm grasp of language and communication will always appeal to a woman, and your seduction abilities will increase proportionately.</p>
<p>Women WANT to notice men, but they put up screens to filter out the guys who don&#8217;t stand out from the rest. Very often, a woman doesn&#8217;t even realize she&#8217;s put up these filters, since she subconsciously starts to ignore all the average guys. Just improve your action orientation, your appearance, and your verbal ability just a little &#8211; enough to stand out &#8211; and women WILL take notice of you when you enter a room.</p>
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<p>Dating tips videos for men features hot women giving dating advice.  Stop by often to see the latest video.  We will be giving you dating tips that you can use to get hot dates now.  So, if you want to date hot women, date older women, date asian women, date young women or just <a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-4031470-10745526" target="_blank">double your dating</a>, watch these video dating tips for guys and learn to date hot women now!</p>
<p>Or maybe you&#8217;re not dating girls enough, or rather not dating enough girls, then if you haven&#8217;t done so yet, check out David DeAngelo&#8217;s &#8220;<a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-4031470-10745526" target="_blank">Double Your Dating</a>&#8221; ebook.  You can watch David&#8217;s Video or check out the <a href="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/review-of-‘double-your-dating’-by-david-deangelo" target="_blank">Double Your Dating Review </a>on this website.  Enjoy the videos!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m writing this “The Art of Approaching” Review after re-reading Joseph Matthew’s veteran e-book on how to approach women. First, if you’re thinking about purchasing this e-book you&#8217;re probably realizing that getting past the initial approach and first impression is the biggest obstacle which men face. Dozens of other e-books are out there which teach [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m writing this “The Art of Approaching” Review after re-reading Joseph Matthew’s veteran e-book on how to approach women. First, if you’re thinking about purchasing this e-book you&#8217;re probably realizing that getting past the initial approach and first impression is the biggest obstacle which men face. Dozens of other e-books are out there which teach you how to attract, seduce, romance and to flirt with women.</p>
<p>But I’m writing this “The Art of Approaching” review because when it comes to the most difficult subject in male dating, I don’t believe that anyone has a better game than the author Joseph Matthews.</p>
<p><strong>The Art of Approaching Review: a Veteran Product</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://validate2.mjack234.hop.clickbank.net/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-216" title="Art of Approaching" src="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/tallgrddrs006-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>The Art of Approaching by Joseph Matthews was written almost a decade ago and since then has been revised and upgraded according to the authors experience in coaching men on how to approach women. To be honest, the first version of the book was super. It included the most comprehensive breakdown of how to approach women, where to approach women, what to say, how to close the interaction, how to prepare your mind, how to deal with rejection and much more.  </p>
<p>Since then, the guidance and advice and it has only involved and become more polished and effective. The sections on body language, situational approaches, opinion and openers and storytelling are some of the most practical and useful you’ll ever find in a book like this. Now, there are a lot of people in the men&#8217;s dating community who claim that this book is mainly for beginners who are clueless when it comes to approaching women.</p>
<p>That might be true to a point, but I&#8217;d guess that pretty much any man who hasn’t yet <em>perfected</em> the art of approaching women ought to be reading and using the ideas in this book. It’s one of those resources that you could use for your entire life and continue to grow and to develop your skills of interacting with women.</p>
<p><strong>Hot Points of The Art of Approaching</strong></p>
<p>The Author Joseph Matthews (aka: Thundercat) is a true “zero to hero” story himself, and if you were to see him, you’d realize that he’s living proof that it doesn’t take looks to learn to attract women (sorry Joseph). That said, I&#8217;d say that this is the perfect resource for a man who believes that he has no chance of becoming successful with women. This guy’s story and his bias will definitely provide you with proof and with the practical advice that made Joseph one of the most well respected men in the PUA community.</p>
<p>In the beginning of the book, Joseph starts out with his own personal “rock bottom moment” and shares his trial and error experience in discovering and mastering the secrets of approaching, creating attraction with and seducing women. He also shares the personal revelations and philosophies which gave him the courage and confidence to go from being a guy who stayed at home on friday night while masturbating to Susan Summers on “Three’s Company,” to one of the masters of pick up.</p>
<p>To conclude this The Art of Approaching review, I’d say that getting a hold of this book is a no-brainer. It’s definitely worth the money, especially considering that it took the author years of painstaking trial and error to discover what you can get your hands on for about the price of a monthly gym membership.</p>
<p>“The Art of Approaching” is highly recommended.</p>
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		<title>Review of ‘Double Your Dating’ by: David DeAngelo</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve decided to write a ‘Double Your Dating’ Review based on my experience with David Angelo’s now infamous e-book. First, I&#8217;d like to say that this review is simply a summary based on the experiences that I had using the principles in this book. Your experiences may be completely different depending on what level you&#8217;re [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-4031470-10745526"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-214" title="Double Your Dating" src="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/ariabludrs004-199x300.jpg" alt="" width="199" height="300" /></a>I’ve decided to write a ‘Double Your Dating’ Review based on my experience with David Angelo’s now infamous e-book. First, I&#8217;d like to say that this review is simply a summary based on the experiences that I had using the principles in this book. Your experiences may be completely different depending on what level you&#8217;re at right now in your dating…I’ll leave that part to you.</p>
<p>The purpose of this ‘Double Your Dating’ Review is simply to give you an idea of what you might be able to expect based on what I learned…</p>
<p><strong>Why and How ‘Double Your Dating’ is Different</strong></p>
<p>The first thing I want to tell you in this ‘Double Your Dating’ Review is how I believe that the author is different than 90% of the other dating coaches out there. This is a guy who practiced his pick up and dating game for years in the streets and to still actively applies the principles he teaches. When you pick up this book, you realize right away what this guy learned from his experiences. I would say the most eye-opening thing is how he explains the reason why women say they want a nice guy, but they make completely different choices when it comes to the men they date.</p>
<p>David DeAngelo gives the most clear-cut and practical explanation of how attraction works &#8211; he takes all the frustration and mystery out of it. I would say that after reading the first 10 pages, you&#8217;ll already have about a dozen new ideas as to how you can actually double your dating…and that’s just the beginning. You’ll learn exactly how and why you’ve blown the interactions with women that you have, and still ended up puzzled as to what happened… I have to warn you though….</p>
<p>Some of this stuff is a little embarrassing once you start to realize how many things you’re doing wrong when it comes to building attraction. It’s really crazy, you just start noticing all these little details that you never noticed before…things which have been screaming that you’re desperate or that you’re a man of low social value….and of course, this kills attraction with women…</p>
<p>That’s the bad news…</p>
<p><strong>The Really, Really Good News</strong></p>
<p>The good news about reading Double Your Dating is that after you get done kicking yourself for all the things you&#8217;ve been doing wrong, it’s VERY easy to correct course and start getting results…I mean really easy. Here are just a few examples of some of the immediate changes you make:</p>
<p>Building attraction the right way, from the very first contact.</p>
<p>Handling yourself differently on the first three dates.</p>
<p>A complete game plan for controlling every interaction with confidence.</p>
<p>This is just a glimpse of practical strategies that you’ll learn from reading this book the first time. There’s a whole lot more to be learned for the serious student who really wants to become a modern-day Don Juan. But even if you are just looking to put yourself in the upper 10% when it comes to creating attraction with women, these three principles alone are well worth the price of the book.</p>
<p>To conclude this ‘Double Your Dating’ Review, I would say that you’re making a big mistake to not at least buy the book and read it…you can always ask for your money back if you&#8217;re not impressed. Based on my experience though, I’m pretty sure you won&#8217;t be doing that.</p>
<p>To watch a video from David DeAngelo and get your free report (including how to do the &#8220;Kiss Test&#8221;), just click the book below.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a ‘Fireworks with Females’ Review, which I decided to put together shortly after getting a hold of Slade Shaw’s Ebook. First, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re probably asking the same question as anybody else who purchases a book like this: how in the world can you learn to relate with women from a dinky little [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a ‘Fireworks with Females’ Review, which I decided to put together shortly after getting a hold of Slade Shaw’s Ebook. First, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re probably asking the same question as anybody else who purchases a book like this: how in the world can you learn to relate with women from a dinky little Ebook. Well, the first thing you’ll find as soon as you read this ‘Fireworks with Females’ Review is that there are shortcuts in life when you know where to look and if you spend your money wisely.  It’s all about who you&#8217;re learning from and whether or not you put what you learned to practice. Of course, the second part of that is up to you…let’s talk about the first…</p>
<p><strong>How ‘Fireworks With Females’ Came to Be</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=validate2&amp;pg=getgirlmen"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-220" title="Fireworks With Females" src="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/swanbludrs006-204x300.jpg" alt="" width="204" height="300" /></a>The authors of ‘Fireworks with females’ started out in very much the same way you probably are right now: they wanted to get better results with women and were both puzzled and frustrated at how it seems that the majority of men are clueless when it comes to creating attraction, while others seem to be natural “GET GIRL GUYS.” Of course, at first it’s easy for us to believe that the skill of attracting women depends on if you&#8217;re born with and not….this book proves otherwise.</p>
<p>You see, the authors clearly explained in this book the painstaking process which they used to discover the principles of creating attraction with women. Believe it or not, there&#8217;s really nothing magical or mysterious about principles once you learn what they are. The problem is that most guys who are “naturals” aren’t aware of exactly what they&#8217;re doing to create their astounding success with women.</p>
<p>They’ve simply developed the habits, and the habits have become completely subconscious. The authors of this book spent a lot of time observing the “naturals” and slowly but surely they begin to uncover the simple strategies they were using.</p>
<p><strong>Fireworks with Females: More than Just Dating</strong></p>
<p>One thing that ‘Fireworks with Females’ has that you don’t find in many of these kinds of books today is a personal growth orientation that focuses on much more than just your dating life. So if you want to make sure that you get 100% of the benefits out of this book, you better be willing to make some changes and put in some work.</p>
<p>What you&#8217;ll find as you do this is that a lot of men expect different results in their dating life but don&#8217;t want to change anything about themselves or their lifestyles….this book will show you exactly why that&#8217;s one of the biggest mistakes men are making these days. Here’s just a glimpse at a few of the things which you realize when reading and using this book…</p>
<p><strong>Digging Up the Dirt</strong></p>
<p>Something that I actually thought was a little bit unnerving about the revelations in this book was that they uncovered all the dirt about why most men completely bomb when it comes to creating attraction. The revelations about the “root words” that women use to secretly communicate interest (or lack of it) are life changing. I also found that the information about how to speak in “code” was humorous, useful and very insightful. Probably the most eye opening though was the fact that the tone of your voice is so important in whether or not women find you attractive.</p>
<p>As a conclusion to my ‘Fireworks with Females’ Review, I’d say that this definitely belongs in the library of any man who wants to create greater attraction and to increase his options with women. Just be sure that you’re ready to face some difficult truths and make some changes in order to get what you want.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:57:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This 2nd Chance Review will give you a clear picture of how you might benefit from using Mirabelle Summer’s book “2nd Chance”. Before getting into this review. I&#8217;m going to warn you that the author is writing from a completely emotionally removed perspective. So in spite of how effective and insightful the advice in this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This 2<sup>nd</sup> Chance Review will give you a clear picture of how you might benefit from using Mirabelle Summer’s book “2<sup>nd</sup> Chance”. Before getting into this review. I&#8217;m going to warn you that the author is writing from a completely emotionally removed perspective. So in spite of how effective and insightful the advice in this book is, it&#8217;s important that you have the emotional maturity to actually practice them and to get results.</p>
<p>Let’s start this 2<sup>nd</sup> Chance Review with a breakdown of what the course teaches you…</p>
<p><strong>2<sup>nd</sup> Chance Review: Summary of Strong Points</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.meetyoursweet.com?aff=validate2&amp;pg=2chmen"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-223" title="2nd Chance" src="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/briawhtchbg009-205x300.jpg" alt="" width="205" height="300" /></a>Most of the time when a relationship comes to an end (especially if you&#8217;ve been dumped), it seems pretty much hopeless to revive it. So most of the advice out there is centered more on how to put your life back together after a break up. Of course, the other course of action is to beg and plead and hope that you can win your ex back, which just puts you in a position of weakness and humiliation.</p>
<p>What you get in this book is a simple step-by-step process to reposition yourself as a man of value; a man who has clearly learned from his mistakes and has become a better person because of it. It tells you exactly how to resist the instinctual responses which just lower your social value and convince her that she made the right decision in taking ditching you. </p>
<p>The course follows a six step process which helps you to survive the “mourning” phase, regain your self confidence, regain her trust…and most of all, have her thinking that she’d be foolish not to get back with you again. Here’s a sneak peek at the principles which are covered”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gethotdatesnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/briawhtchbg009.jpg"></a>Dealing with the ex that’s ignoring you</p>
<p>Getting out of the “just be friends” category</p>
<p>How to deal with the situation where she’s moved on</p>
<p>Dealing with the ex who has become indifferent and emotionally removed from you</p>
<p>Dealing with the belief that you have lost her love</p>
<p>Of course, as part of this 2<sup>nd</sup> chance review I HAVE to mention that the value of a female perspective in this book makes it one of the most insightful guides out there. You probably already know that female perspectives can sometimes be misleading and confusing when it comes to the world of dating. But Mirabelle Summers is like one of those female friends that every guy needs in his life.</p>
<p>She doesn’t pull any punches or try to glaze over some of the most obviously frustrating challenges of relating with women. You just get the full picture from someone who clearly knows why women fall in love, why they fall out of love and what can encourage them to fall back in love…with you.</p>
<p><strong>2<sup>nd</sup> Chance Review: Bonus Features and Conclusion</strong></p>
<p>To conclude this 2<sup>nd</sup> Chance Review, I’d like to add that the two bonus books on happiness and on surviving the pain of a breakup actually add a lot of value and aren’t your run of the mill free bonus books. Together with this feature book “2<sup>nd</sup> Chance,” these guides can help you do more than just get your ex back. They hold the secret to helping you get your life together so that when you do win her back, you’ll be able to make it better than it was before you lost her.</p>
<p><strong>Click the books below for your 2nd chance:</strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looking for some easy seduction tips for men that can help you to light a fire under your dating life? If so, you&#8217;ve probably already tried a lot of things which haven&#8217;t worked and that might have even caused you to permanently miss out on chances with women in the past. Thankfully, you’re about to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looking for some easy seduction tips for men that can help you to light a fire under your dating life? If so, you&#8217;ve probably already tried a lot of things which haven&#8217;t worked and that might have even caused you to permanently miss out on chances with women in the past. Thankfully, you’re about to discover a few key dating tips for men which will teach you how to please a woman and build attraction from the very start so that she will gladly welcome your advances.</p>
<p>Let’s start with the mindset that you need to have in order to successfully use these seduction tips for men…</p>
<p><strong>Women Want no Part in It</strong></p>
<p>Did you know that women actually enjoy and desire sex just as much as men do? Did you know that they actually welcome you seducing them? The tricky thing is (and the thing which really gets men confused), that women don&#8217;t want to play an active role in their seduction. One of the most important seduction tips for men you&#8217;ll ever apply is the art of subtlety and indirect communication. Women are indirect and prefer their interactions with men to involve a little bit of mystery, curiosity and romance.</p>
<p>As long as you take this road when it comes to seducing a woman, she&#8217;ll be completely fine with being involved in the process. It’s when it becomes obvious what you are trying to do that she gets turned off…it’s a woman thing, they feel that the “magic” is gone out of it and they start to feel like an object… not good. So that’s the most important thing to remember as you are applying these three seduction tips for men…</p>
<p><strong>Don’t try to seduce her, try to get her comfortable</strong></p>
<p>Most men make the mistake of thinking that they have to “get a woman to want to have sex.” But reality is that women already want to have sex, they just want to do it with a man that they are comfortable with. So if you can build attraction and make a woman comfortable, it’s much easier to take her to the next step. Building comfort starts with your interactions with her while you’re out on dates..most important is getting her comfortable with being close to you and with touching.</p>
<p>It’s best to start out with nonthreatening and settle contacts, and then escalating as she becomes more comfortable with the idea of you touching her. This alone will make the second two seduction tips for men easy to apply…</p>
<p><strong>Meet Her at Your Place</strong></p>
<p>Instead of meeting her somewhere in public, have her come by your place and then leave and go somewhere else from there. Then, you won&#8217;t have to be faced with the awkward question of how you&#8217;re going to get her to come back to your place…she’ll have to go there to get her car. Once you’re there, it’ll be a lot easier to invite her in for a moment than to ask her to come with you halfway across town, with her thinking the whole time: “This guys just wants me to come back to his place and sleep with him.”</p>
<p>Yes, that may even be what she wants….but remember, she doesn’t want it to be obvious.</p>
<p><strong>Don’t Chase Her, Get Her to Chase You</strong></p>
<p>The biggest mistake that men make when they are trying to seduce a woman is advancing one step at a time, without any teasing, pulling back or withholding. When a woman wants to hold your hand, hold off…don’t give it to her right away. Do the same thing with kissing. When you do kiss her or hold her hand, be the first to pull away. Always be the first to end your interactions with her and to pull back (confidently) from her advances. Tease her like this, and it won’t be long before she’s pulling off your clothes.</p>
<p>Sure, there are other seduction tips for men that you can learn. But if you practice these strategies you’ll find that everything else pretty much takes care of itself. Have fun.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, here&#8217;s a straight up question for you: how many times have you gotten fed up and given up on the cheesy online dating tips for men like: “have a good profile, mention something from her profile, ask her something that she can reply to…blah, blah, blah…” Did you know that over 90% of men [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, here&#8217;s a straight up question for you: how many times have you gotten fed up and given up on the cheesy online dating tips for men like: “have a good profile, mention something from her profile, ask her something that she can reply to…blah, blah, blah…”</p>
<p>Did you know that over 90% of men give up on online dating with the first three months because of lack of results? So if you feel that you’re clueless on how to get a girlfriend online, it might comfort you to know that MOST men are feeling this way.</p>
<p>But, you’re probably still wondering if there are any online dating tips that you can actually count on to get the results. Here are three you can start using right away…</p>
<p><strong>Don’t Date Online</strong></p>
<p>Gasp! Okay, here you are wondering how to get a girlfriend by online dating, and I’m telling you not to do it. Well… not exactly. You see, online dating is a great way to MEET women, but if you want to know how to get a girlfriend and build a meaningful relationship…you have to get the interaction off-line as soon as possible.</p>
<p>Most online dating tips simply tell you how to get someone to respond to your e-mail and how to communicate by email. But have you ever built a great relationship by e-mail or phone and found that there was nothing there in person? What a waste of time!</p>
<p>Not to mention that there are actually women who post inaccurate pictures or who want to chat online, but will flake out when it comes to meeting in person. So don&#8217;t waste your time dating online, simply use it as a place to meet her and get to know her the old fashioned way…</p>
<p><strong>Timing Counts…a Lot</strong></p>
<p>This is probably one of the most valuable online dating tips for men that you’ll ever learn: send all of your e-mails on Saturday and Sunday morning. Sure, timing isn&#8217;t that big of a deal for a man because we are actions and results oriented. But women are a completely different story. They’re all about the process by which a man meets, pursues and seduces them.</p>
<p>Most women dating online get a LOT of emails, and they’re too busy to answer them during the week… not to mention that they&#8217;re distracted. But most single women go out on Friday and Saturday nights hoping to meet a man. When they don’t, they get up frustrated and check their emails to see what their options are…and there’s your email…how convenient!</p>
<p>And your final online dating tip…</p>
<p><strong>The Long and Short of Emailing</strong></p>
<p>Three basic tools of e-mailing women on dating sites: less than 100 words (too much and she either won’t read it will think that you have nothing better to do with your time), send a follow up if she doesn’t email back (persistence pays off), and position yourself as a man of value.</p>
<p>Now in relation to this last rule, the key is to show an equal amount of interest and disinterest. In other words, it&#8217;s not that big of a deal if she doesn&#8217;t write you back. This might sound counterproductive, but if a woman perceives that you aren&#8217;t desperate to hear from her she&#8217;ll automatically assume that you have a higher social value than most of the men contacting her.</p>
<p>So get back in the game, and put these to work right away.</p>
<p>With these online dating tips in your tool box, you’ll have an unfair advantage over the other chumps out there, and more quality women in your life… and you don&#8217;t even have to leave your house to meet them.</p>
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		<title>Ways to Please a Woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:53:45 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How would you like to know how to please a woman, both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom? If you’ve been in even one relationship with a woman, you know that there has to be some kind of a secret to this. After all, plenty of guys who don’t know how to please a woman go out of their way buying things and rearranging their lives to try and earn a woman’s favor. If you’ve realized that this doesn’t work and if you are looking for some solid advice that can help you learn how to attract women and create great connections with them, you’ll be excited to learn these simple tips…</p>
<p><strong>Uncommon Knowledge of Female Attraction</strong></p>
<p>Did you know that one of the key secrets to knowing how to please a woman is not going out of your way to please her? Yes, this might sound counterproductive. But women do throw tests at men to see if he’s man enough to stand his ground or fold up under pressure and do whatever he can to please her. Women are looking for a man who will protect them and take care of them, so when it comes to choosing men who they’re attracted to, they are more likely to choose a man who they know they can&#8217;t boss around too much.</p>
<p>So knowing how to please a woman starts with being able to recognize when you&#8217;re being tested, and being able to stick to your own personal values when you are. If you can do this with confidence and certainty, you&#8217;ll demonstrate that you are a powerful and decisive man and that you’ll be able to take care of your woman and stand up for her. This will also make it much easier for you to take control of the relationship and to keep it….which is the role which most women are looking for a man to fulfill in their lives.</p>
<p><strong>How to Please a Woman Emotionally</strong></p>
<p>Knowing how to please a woman emotionally is probably the most challenging skill for a man to master. It requires you to understand the indirect nature in which women communicate. Men are more bottom-line thinkers and would rather skip over the mysterious “guess what I’m thinking/feeling games.” On the other hand, women want you to be able to read between the lines, determine what their needs are and be the man to fulfill those needs.</p>
<p>This can be very confusing unless you understand the needs which are most important to women: certainty and significance. How do you know these are the most important? Just pay attention to the advertising which is directed towards selling women products which “fulfill” their needs for security and for significance. Companies who write this stuff spend billions of dollars a year on research to determine what needs are most important to their buyers.</p>
<p>So when your woman expects you to anticipate your needs, always ask yourself if she is acting out of a need for certainty or a need for significance.</p>
<p><strong>How to Please a Woman Physically</strong></p>
<p>Believe it or not, if you understand how to please a woman emotionally and if you can pass her “tests,” she’ll be much more open to you sexually as well. For women, what happens in the bedroom is the climax of what happens in the rest of your relationship. So if you are not pleasing her emotionally and positioning yourself as a man of confidence and value, things won’t go well in the bedroom either.</p>
<p>So check yourself on these three things and you’ll find it much easier to learn how to please a woman.</p>
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		<title>How to Get a Girlfriend</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:52:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you beginning to realize that knowing how to get a girlfriend is a life skill you need to have to get what you really want? Think about it, how to attract beautiful women isn’t a course that they offer even in college. In fact, when it comes to practical dating tips for men, you’re [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you beginning to realize that knowing how to get a girlfriend is a life skill you need to have to get what you really want? Think about it, how to attract beautiful women isn’t a course that they offer even in college. In fact, when it comes to practical dating tips for men, you’re pretty much left with what you learned from your father or your friends growing up.</p>
<p>If you’re beginning to realize that this is just not enough for you to learn the rock solid strategies for how to get a girlfriend, then what you’re about to discover is some priceless information that most men never learn…</p>
<p><strong>Three Little Known Dating Tips for Men </strong></p>
<p>1) Nice Guys Finish Last</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed that the guys who really know how to attract beautiful women are also some of the roughest and unrefined guys you&#8217;ve ever met? If so, you’ve probably been living in a cave. Sure, women say to you that they want a nice polite guy with good manners, a big heart and who has a great relationship with his mother.</p>
<p>But you’ve surely also noticed that the men women date almost never meet this description. Sorry ladies, but actions speak louder than words…and the evidence is in: nice guys finish last. This means if you want to enjoy amazing interactions with women, you have to stop listening to their advice about how to get a girlfriend.</p>
<p>Most people don&#8217;t have a firm understanding of what they really want…and people’s words almost always contradict their actions. If you want to learn the best dating tips for men, start looking at paying attention to the guys women are actually dating, chasing and sleeping with…the rest is just  a theory anyway…</p>
<p>2) Rejection is Your Friend</p>
<p>Gasp! How could this possibly be good advice on how to get a girlfriend? Okay, let’s be reasonable about something: no man living or dead has ever had a 100% success rate in attracting women. Anyone who tells you differently is selling something. This means that if you want to have your pick of quality women, you have to get out there and start meeting them and asking them on dates.</p>
<p>Yes, many of them will say no, but the more you meet and the more you ask, the more yeses you’ll get…</p>
<p>3) Neediness is Your Enemy</p>
<p>Most men have no idea how to get a girlfriend because they need to get a girlfriend. Yes, again this might sound crazy… but women can smell desperation from a mile away. This lowers your social value and puts you in a position of weakness, which is a position that almost always assures you won’t get what you want.</p>
<p>If you want to have an amazingly attractive woman in your life, that’s fine&#8230;every guy wants that. But every amazingly attractive woman out there knows that’s what men want from them. They have needy men approached them every day, and they’re tired of it. The more socially valuable a woman is, the more she&#8217;s going to want a man who knows his value and who knows that women need him more than he needs them.</p>
<p>So these are the three areas you need to get to work on, and the day to get started is today. Then all the other clueless guys out there who never learned how to get a girl friend the right way will wonder what your secret is.</p>
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		<title>How to be Irresistible to Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:51:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wrote this ‘How to be irresistible to women’ review so that you can get a better idea of what to expect from purchasing James Bradley&#8217;s book “How to Be Irresistible to Women.” The first thing I’d like to say about this course is that it’s one of the most comprehensive guides available these days…which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wrote this ‘How to be irresistible to women’ review so that you can get a better idea of what to expect from purchasing James Bradley&#8217;s book “How to Be Irresistible to Women.” The first thing I’d like to say about this course is that it’s one of the most comprehensive guides available these days…which is kind of a double-edged sword. Meaning that while you get a lot of great advice which covers just about all the areas of your dating life, putting it all into practice can seem a little bit overwhelming at first.</p>
<p>So if you decide to purchase the course after reading this ‘How to be irresistible to women’ review, I recommend that you plan on taking things one step at a time and get ready to make some serious (and empowering) changes.</p>
<p><strong>How to Be Irresistible to Women Review: The Breakdown</strong></p>
<p>When you purchase the premium package of James Bradley’s product, you’ll get a full guide to dating success including:</p>
<p>Insights about common dating mistakes</p>
<p>Approach strategies</p>
<p>Fashion Tips</p>
<p>Insights on what women find attractive</p>
<p>kissing tips</p>
<p>Conversation starters</p>
<p>How to build self-confidence</p>
<p>How to create attraction</p>
<p>How to make a good first impression</p>
<p>In addition to this, how to be irresistible to women also includes several bonus features which teach you enough about dating success to keep you busy for the next year. So as you can guess, there’s no shortage of information available here, and the more of it you use, the more value you’ll get out of it.</p>
<p><strong>How to Be Irresistible to Women Review: Strongest Points</strong></p>
<p>I’d say that the strongest points of how to be irresistible to women are its in-depth explanation of the “science” of attraction. You get enough objective explanations in here to help you understand why attraction works the way it does and why the subject of what women are really attracted to seems to be such a mystery to most men. In how to be irresistible to women, James Bradley tells you exactly how to romance and seduce women without coming off as slimy, and without going broke.</p>
<p>One thing that you will notice as you read this is that most of the common thinking about how to be irresistible to women is really pretty worthless. It’s a little embarrassing to be honest with you, especially when you start being able to recognize where you’ve gone wrong in the past. I’m also guessing that after reading this you’ll find yourself watching a man interact with a woman and wanting to just walk up and start coaching him…poor guys.</p>
<p>But I say above all the most viable thing about this course is that it comes with a complete workbook which walks you step-by-step through applying everything you learned during the course. This is especially important for two reasons: first, because after reading the information in this course you&#8217;ll probably feel like you have to start all over again in some areas of your dating life…which can make it hard to determine where to get started.</p>
<p>But the most valuable thing is that you actually get to put these principles into practice and start seeing for yourself the difference is they make not only in your dating life, but in your own personal development as well. So to conclude my how to be irresistible to women review, I’d say it’s a good buy. Just make sure you’re ready to put in the work and I’m sure you’ll be pleased with your purchase.</p>
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		<title>How to Attract Younger Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Knowing how to attract younger women is a skill every man wishes for at least one point in his life. How about you? You know how it is, you see those beautiful young women while you’re out somewhere and you want to be able to attract them so bad that it makes you mad. Well, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Knowing how to attract younger women is a skill every man wishes for at least one point in his life. How about you? You know how it is, you see those beautiful young women while you’re out somewhere and you want to be able to attract them so bad that it makes you mad. Well, if you want to know how to pick up women who are in their twenties (or early thirties depending on your age), you’re in luck…cause it’s easier than you think. These few simple steps will help you learn how to attract younger women…</p>
<p><strong>How to Approach Women of the Younger Generation</strong></p>
<p>#1 A Different Mindset</p>
<p>The first step to knowing how to attract younger women is knowing how they think and what qualities that they’re looking for in a man. The most important thing is that they don’t need as much certainty as older women do. In fact, they would prefer to have a little bit of uncertainty and mystery. If you lay all the cards out on the table up front, they’ll get bored really fast. So keep a little mystery about yourself and especially about your interest in her. This will get her curious, which will make her think about you when you’re not around and that curiosity will solidify into attraction.</p>
<p>#2 Your Advantage as an Older Man</p>
<p>Are you thinking that you have a disadvantage because you’re older when it comes to learning how to attract younger women? If so, you need to know that you have a maturity and strength of character that all women really want…they’re attracted to it. The problem is that the younger one’s also want a man who is a little bit edgy and fun…a bit of boyishness left in him. The advantage you have as an older man is that you can develop (or revive) your youthful personality traits and offer younger women the best of both worlds.</p>
<p>The best way to do this is to start doing some things that help you to get in touch with your youthfulness. Do adventurous and fun things that you can do with younger women without them feeling that they’re with an old man.</p>
<p>#3 How to Attract Younger Women From Square One</p>
<p>The most important part of knowing how to attract younger women is being able to communicate that you have a high social value. In other words, that you’re preselected by others…especially women. For example, if you’re alone when you go places, that demonstrates a lack of social value. But if you go places with other people, especially if you have women with you (preferably younger and attractive women), that demonstrates that you’re a man of high social value.</p>
<p>You see, women are very competitive and when they see that another women might have, or be about to get a hold of, something that they don’t have, it makes them want it even more. Being seen with other women also demonstrates that other women think you’re attractive which must mean that you have something of value to offer them.</p>
<p><strong>The Game Plan</strong></p>
<p>Now that you know how to attract younger women, it’s time to get out there and start meeting some of them. Find a few friends (remember, women friends are best) to go out with, remember to build a little mystery and to find some way to get in touch with your youthful and adventurous side. And remember, if you’re an older and more emotionally mature man, these things will put you at more of an advantage when it comes to knowing how to attract younger women.</p>
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		<title>How to Attract Beautiful Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:48:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you’re like most guys, you&#8217;ve probably seen a gorgeous woman and thought: “If I knew how to attract beautiful women like her, all would be right with the world.” Ah yes! The world is full of beautiful women. You see them every time you leave your house, and you probably even dream about them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you’re like most guys, you&#8217;ve probably seen a gorgeous woman and thought:</p>
<p>“If I knew how to attract beautiful women like her, all would be right with the world.”</p>
<p>Ah yes! The world is full of beautiful women. You see them every time you leave your house, and you probably even dream about them at night. And do you know what? Most of them are looking for a good man to share their life with. Most of them are frustrated that all the good men seem to be “taken.” All of those women LOVE sex! And like you, they’re looking for a good man who can fulfill their wildest fantasies in the bedroom.</p>
<p>And there’s no reason why the man they end up with can’t be you. All it takes is for you to get a hold of the rock solid secrets for how to attract beautiful women…</p>
<p><strong>Secret #1: Know How to Flirt With Women</strong></p>
<p>Plenty of men know how to get a girlfriend, but few men really know how to attract beautiful women. Why is this? Because the majority of the male population has no idea how to flirt with women. Sure, they can strike up a conversation with her, and perhaps even ask her out on a date. But even men who have the skills and the guts to do this still get shot down constantly.</p>
<p>If you want to make sure that you are not one of these unfortunate dudes, you have to know how to flirt with women the RIGHT way. A few simple rules to flirting with hot women are: know when to move ahead and know when to pull back, know how to withhold a kiss or even physical contact until she is aching for it, not being afraid to touch her and enter her space.</p>
<p>Learn to use these, and you&#8217;ll set yourself apart from the majority of men who don’t know how to get a girlfriend that they really want. Instead, they are forced to settle for what’s left over when the alpha males are done choosing. If you learn how to attract beautiful women by creating red hot attraction with flirting, you’ll be the alpha male that every other man is so envious of…</p>
<p><strong>Secret #2: Be a Man of High Social Value</strong></p>
<p>Do you know why most men don’t understand how to attract beautiful women? Because they’re too focused on “getting the woman” instead of presenting themselves a man of value. Let’s be honest, beautiful women aren&#8217;t going to fall all over and a man who has low social value, they have too many men competing for their attention.</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s your social value? When you go out, are you all by yourself or are you surrounded by friends? Do the women you meet see you as a man who has lots of options in his life as far as dating goes? If not, it’s time for you to begin increasing the size of your social circle or at least making sure that the woman you are interested in sees that you’re someone who is well-liked by others and desired by women.</p>
<p>You can bet that if beautiful women see you as this kind of man, they’ll consider you to be worth their time. Of course, there are other secrets and strategies to learn, but these are two that you can start with. With a little practice and persistence you’ll develop the skills which will help you understand how to attract beautiful women.</p>
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		<title>How to Attract Asian Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For many non-Asian men, how to attract Asian women can be a mystery. It is not difficult as one may think. If you just apply yourself, with a little bit of time and education, it will become a breeze to know how to pick up women. First and foremost, when you’re learning how to attract [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For many non-Asian men, how to attract Asian women can be a mystery. It is not difficult as one may think. If you just apply yourself, with a little bit of time and education, it will become a breeze to know how to pick up women. First and foremost, when you’re learning how to attract Asian women, leave all thoughts of having your very own Geisha at the door. Asian women have been thoroughly stereotyped in film and television as being prostitutes, Geishas, peasants and exotic dancers (especially in war films).</p>
<p>So when you think about how to approach women, the LAST thing you should say is, “I have got a HUGE Asian fetish!” You have automatically screwed yourself, because now this woman will just be a sex object in your eyes. Even if this wasn’t what you intended, you’ll never get a 2<sup>nd</sup> shot at your first impression. All you can do at that point is tuck your tail between your legs, wish her a pleasant evening and move on to the next woman.</p>
<p>You might be asking yourself not only how to attract Asian women, but where to meet them? There are a few surefire places to go to find large groups of Asian women together at the same time. It might sound cliché to some, but Asian restaurants are a good place. The trick is to look for smaller Asian restaurants that locals frequent, not your neighborhood Panda Express. Next, look for dances that are being held around town and which are hosted by different Asian clubs. Don’t feel out of place going to these dances. Even though they are hosted by Asian clubs, they’ll welcome you as long as you’re respectful to the women.</p>
<p>Finally, a clever technique which can help you learn how to attract Asian women involves Asian grocery stores.  If you see an attractive woman in one of the aisles, pick up two different items and just look confused. If she’s helpful (or possibly interested), she will help you choose the right item. Now the lines of communication are open, so take it from there.</p>
<p>If you really want to get into an Asian woman’s good graces, learn to differentiate between Asian nationalities and learn a little bit about each culture. NEVER EVER ask what nationality she is. That is a huge pet peeve to Asian women. This is because it brings you back to thinking of them as an object and not engaging her personality or her interests. When it comes to learning how to pick up Asian women, let her tell you her nationality when she’s ready.</p>
<p> If she does decide to disclose her nationality, it will truly impress her if you can show that you know something about her culture. No matter how trivial it might seem to you, she will normally find it quite endearing. Just avoid offensive stereotypes. For example, she might be Vietnamese, but don’t tell her you’ve always wanted to know what dog meat tastes like. She might have eaten it all throughout her childhood, but because of the negative social stigma in other countries, you’ll have blown it big time.</p>
<p>How to attract Asian women does come with its own playbook to follow. Just do your homework, choose your words carefully, know where to go and have common sense. It’ll get easier and you’ll have the Asian woman of your dreams.</p>
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		<title>How to Approach Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Knowing how to approach women seems to most men, one of those things that only really gifted or really brave men can pull off without making a fool out of themselves. Have you ever felt that if you just knew how to pick up women that the rest of it would be easy? If so, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Knowing how to approach women seems to most men, one of those things that only really gifted or really brave men can pull off without making a fool out of themselves. Have you ever felt that if you just knew how to pick up women that the rest of it would be easy? If so, you’re probably super frustrated if you haven&#8217;t yet learned the art of approaching a woman you don’t know. Well, if this is you, then you’ll be excited to learn these simple tips on how to approach women…</p>
<p><strong>First, Know Where to Meet Women</strong></p>
<p>The first key to learning how to approach women is knowing where to meet them. You’ve probably already learned that it is easier to meet women in some places than it is in others. For example, picking up women in the gym isn’t usually a good idea, or at the grocery store or any other place where they&#8217;re trying to take care of business and don’t have time to chat.</p>
<p>Sure, if you see a woman you&#8217;re crazy about approaching and you know you&#8217;ll never get another chance, it’s better to give it a shot than not do anything. But your chances of getting a positive response will be greatly increased if you go to places where women hang out and relax and where they are open towards meeting somebody: dog parks, coffee shops, book stores, clubs…</p>
<p><strong>Second, the Walk Away Approach</strong></p>
<p>Most men who think they know how to approach women try to go straight from hello to getting a phone number within the first five minutes. The problem with this is that it comes off as needy and it telegraphs interest without giving you a chance to build your social value. Better to make a brief approach or comment, get a response from her, and walk away or get back to your business.</p>
<p>This accomplishes two objectives: first, it shows her that you’re not needy and gets her wondering whether or not you&#8217;re interested in her…and curiosity is easy to turn into interest. The other thing that it does is gives you a chance to test out her response to you and see if you’re even interested. Once you’ve approached and walked away, it’s also much easier to come back and engage her again.</p>
<p><strong>Third, Use the Observational Approach</strong></p>
<p>If you’re one of those guys who thinks that the secret to how to approach women is having a solid routine memorized before you talk to her, guess again. The best approaches are always the most natural approaches. This means that you have to become a master of using observational conversation starters to engage people.</p>
<p>This isn’t as hard as it sounds, the problem is that most guys don&#8217;t bother to practice this till they see “dreamgirl” and suddenly find themselves reduced to monosyllabic cavemen. You’ll never learn how to pick up women if you only test your skills under this kind of pressure.</p>
<p>Instead, practice observational conversation starters with everyone you possibly can: guys, girls, old people, fat dudes you’d normally never speak to etc. This way, your conversational skills will be sharp when you finally see a woman you&#8217;re attracted to, and you’ll be on your game.</p>
<p>Like the saying goes: “The time to repair the roof is when the sun is shining.”</p>
<p>Remember, knowing how to approach women is not some magical feat which requires you to summon your spirit guide. Like anything else, it is consistent practice, and these three steps will help you to become master.</p>
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		<title>How to Approach Girls</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just imagine if you knew how to approach girls and dramatically increase your options when it came to your dating life. How many more dates could you get as early as this weekend? If this sounds like something you’re interested in, you’re probably burning to know the secrets of how to approach women and how [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just imagine if you knew how to approach girls and dramatically increase your options when it came to your dating life. How many more dates could you get as early as this weekend? If this sounds like something you’re interested in, you’re probably burning to know the secrets of how to approach women and how to attract women so that you can have your choice of qualify women, or of the perfect partner/spouse possible. Without having the skills, you’ll be forced to take what&#8217;s left over when the guys who know how to approach girls are choosing.</p>
<p>So let’s get right into some practical tips for how to increase your dating options…</p>
<p><strong>Learning How to Approach Girls</strong></p>
<p>First, I need to be straight up honest with you and tell you that learning how to approach girls is not something you&#8217;re ever going to do by reading articles and EBooks alone. You have to actually get out there and start applying what you learn about how to approach women and you have to risk making some mistakes and getting rejected. Does this make you uncomfortable and are you hoping that there is an easier way to do it?</p>
<p>If so, the first thing that you need to do is develop a way to cope with rejection, because life is full of it. Learning to deal with rejection and disappointment is a sign of emotional maturity, which is something you must have if you want to have any hope of learning how to attract women. A great place to start is by building your sense of personal value and developing the empowering belief that women need you more than you need them.</p>
<p>Think about it, as a man you have plenty of time to develop your attraction building skills and your character…and contrary to common belief these have nothing to do with the way you look. On the other hand, women are more at the mercy of their looks and have to land a good man before time and gravity take their toll on her looks. So they need you more than you need them, and the sooner you learn this, the easier time of learning how to approach girls.</p>
<p><strong>How to Approach Girls: A Different Philosophy</strong></p>
<p>Have you read all of the generic advice on how to approach girls and tried it only to get lousy results? If so, you might be relieved to know that the generic advice such as: smile, make eye contact, make compliments, be confident…blah, blah, blah isn’t what really works. Think about it, these are the things that EVERY guy believes about how to approach girls….don’t you think women have either caught onto this by now or are bored with it?</p>
<p>If you want to be the guy like a diamond in the rough, you have to master the art of indirect communication. In other words, you will her with your words that you’re just casually interested in her, while your body language tells her that you are interested in her at a deeper level.</p>
<p>Why don’t most men believe that this is the way to learn how to approach girls? Because they foolishly believe that women think like they do.  They think that women are bottom-line thinkers you want everything to be laid out on the table in black and white. Not so. Women prefer a little romance, mystery and uncertainty. It keeps them guessing, it challenges them and it builds attraction.</p>
<p>And that’s the difference between men who fall flat on their face and don’t get what they want and those who actually know how to approach girls and create smoking hot attraction..</p>
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		<title>Body Language to Attract Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:34:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How would you like to use body language to attract women and have the upper hand before you even spoke a word to her? In case you&#8217;ve been wondering how important this is in regard to learning how to attract women, it might interest you to know that sociologists estimate that about 90% of our [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How would you like to use body language to attract women and have the upper hand before you even spoke a word to her? In case you&#8217;ve been wondering how important this is in regard to learning how to attract women, it might interest you to know that sociologists estimate that about 90% of our communication is non-verbal. This means that if you don&#8217;t know how to use body language to attract women, you might be more challenged in communication than a deaf person who knows the rules of body language.</p>
<p>Well, if you’re ready to do something about this and ready to use the magic of body language to attract women, then here are three things you need to start doing today….</p>
<p><strong>First, Getting Rid of Insecure Gestures</strong></p>
<p>The next time you&#8217;re out in public, start paying attention to other men’s body language and see what it tells you about their personality. You’ll notice right away that gestures such as fidgeting, looking around uncertainly, indecisive movements and slumped posture tells you that they are insecure or unsure of themselves.</p>
<p>Now when it comes to using body language to attract women, how do you think these kind of guys might appear to a woman who has never met them? Making these kinds of observations ought to be enough for you to start correcting your own insecure body language gestures.</p>
<p><strong>Second, Take up Some Space</strong></p>
<p>Have you ever noticed that some men take up more space than others? They take up a lot of space and they almost always look as if they were on their home turf. They don&#8217;t try to guard around and dodge other people or go out of their way to make room for others. These are guys who use body language to attract women because they demonstrate that they are confident and dominant men, which women find very attractive.</p>
<p>Their movements are normally slower, more decisive and they appear surer of themselves. Pick out a few of these guys (movie stars are usually good examples), and start taking on their body language characteristics.</p>
<p><strong>Third, Entering Her Space</strong></p>
<p>Probably the most effective key to using body language to attract women is not being afraid to enter her personal space when you’re talking to her. This doesn&#8217;t mean that you get up in her face, what it means is that it demonstrates to her that you are comfortable with being close to her, and (when you’ve been speaking with her for a few moments) touching her.</p>
<p>You’d be amazed at how much confidence you can communicate through light touches on the hand, playful little pokes, hip checks and other flirty movements that show you that you aren’t afraid to enter her space. Of course, personal touches like this can be a little uncomfortable for both of you at first, so it’s a good idea to warm things up by touching personal items of hers like her jewelry, her cell phone or other things that she’s carrying.</p>
<p>And finally, get out there and get some practice using body language to attract women. No matter how much you read things like this, you’ll always get more benefit from real life experience. Also, as you practice the above tips, you’ll have the opportunity to see how people respond to you. After enough of this you’ll become much more comfortable and confident in your ability to use body language to attract women.</p>
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		<title>How to Talk to Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>joetrader</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Want to know how to talk to women who you’re interested in? Or what if you could learn how to approach women and how to attract women and what if you could use this skill to have your pick of quality women instead of having to settle for whatever crumbs fell off of the table? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Want to know how to talk to women who you’re interested in? Or what if you could learn how to approach women and how to attract women and what if you could use this skill to have your pick of quality women instead of having to settle for whatever crumbs fell off of the table? If your answer is that you would like to be a man of many options when it comes to women, you might want to check out what some of the dating experts are saying about how to talk to women…</p>
<p><strong>First, Are You Making This Mistake?</strong></p>
<p>If you’re feeling like you need some advice on how to talk to women, it&#8217;s probably because you&#8217;re making the common mistake of getting into “approaching mode.” What does this mean? It means that every time you see a woman you&#8217;re attracted to, a complete shift happens in your mind and body. You start to feel nervous, under pressure, you start scrambling for things to say, you start worrying about whether or not she&#8217;s going to reject you…</p>
<p>Does this sound familiar to you? If so, you might be thinking that every other man on the planet feels this way….even those who are experts in how to talk to women. But that’s not the case. Men who know how to approach women do it as a completely natural process. They speak to women they are attracted to the same way they would speak to any regular person who they meet. In other words, they don&#8217;t experience all this additional fear and anxiety and other emotional baggage which plagues the common man.</p>
<p>Why is this and how do you get yourself in a different mindset?</p>
<p><strong>Go Against the Grain</strong></p>
<p>Knowing how to talk to women isn’t common knowledge, and so most men go about it the wrong way: They compliment her on her looks, they ask her name, they try to direct the conversation towards getting a date or getting a phone number. In other words, most men make the mistake of telegraphing interest right off the bat and putting himself one step below the woman.</p>
<p>Then, they proceed to try and treat the interaction like a business deal. They go right for the close, and completely deprive the interaction of any kind of mystery, playfulness or romance. In other words, they don’t know how to talk to women because they’re too busy thinking like men. Men are bottom-line thinkers who like to go right the jugular.</p>
<p>But women are more indirect and prefer their interactions with men to be natural and to have some sense of mystery and ambiguity. Of course, men hate this and just wish that women would be more direct about what they want…and this is why most men are clueless about how to talk to women and how to attract women.</p>
<p>If you want different results, you have to learn to do things differently…</p>
<p><strong>Master the Art of Indirect Communication</strong></p>
<p>Did you know that the secret to knowing how to talk to women is being able to send them mixed signals and to build curiosity, mystery and suspense? This means that you communicate as if you’re not that interested in them, yet you give them small subtle signs that tell them you are interested in them. For example, light touches when you talk to them, playful little jabs that suggest you might be attracted to her…but which leave some mystery.</p>
<p>This is the art of indirect communication, and women find it mysterious, challenging and attractive. These may be things which would frustrate a man, but which are essential to knowing how to talk to women.</p>
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		<title>How to Flirt with Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 00:14:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Knowing how to flirt with women is a skill that many men never learn or have completely wrong. Think about it, the expense of most men&#8217;s flirting consists of “Where are you from?” “Can I buy you a drink?” and “Do you come here often?” It’s no wonder so many men are completely frustrated as [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Knowing how to flirt with women is a skill that many men never learn or have completely wrong. Think about it, the expense of most men&#8217;s flirting consists of “Where are you from?” “Can I buy you a drink?” and “Do you come here often?” It’s no wonder so many men are completely frustrated as to how to attract beautiful women into their life.</p>
<p>Well, if you’re interested in knowing how to flirt with women and you’re tired of the same old dating tips for men like: smile, make eye contact, compliment her… blah, blah, blah…then these three little known tips on how to attract beautiful women with flirting ought to be a breath of fresh air…</p>
<p><strong>No More Mr. Nice Guy</strong></p>
<p>The key to knowing how to flirt with women is understanding how attraction works for women: they are attracted to men who make them feel safe and secure and excited at the same time. Nice guys who do everything that a woman wants have a serious strike against them when it comes to this.</p>
<p>Think about this: how safe would you feel around someone who did everything the way you wanted them to? Surely, such a person is submissive and probably not very good at standing up for themselves. Add to this the fact that a woman needs a man who will protect her, and it&#8217;s easy to see why being the nice guy is horrible positioning for attracting women.</p>
<p>So “no more Mr. nice guy” is probably one of the most important dating tips for men you’ll ever learn…</p>
<p><strong>Using Unpredictability</strong></p>
<p>Okay, so if you need to make her feel safe and secure, how do you balance that out with excitement? Well, knowing how to flirt with women is all about being a bit unpredictable and leaving her guessing about something. Of course, you have to make sure this unpredictability and mystery is balanced with confidence and responsibility.</p>
<p>The best way to accomplish this is simply keeping your life, your personality and your values intact…even when they’re not to her liking. Yes, you’ll lose some because of this. But you&#8217;d be amazed at how much more desirable you will become when a woman realizes she can&#8217;t control you just because you want to be with her.</p>
<p>The more attractive a woman is, the more men she has keep competing for her attention and the more accustomed she is to men doing exactly what she wants in order to get her attention. Women are bored with this, so if you set yourself apart…you’ll be less predictable and thus more exciting to be around.</p>
<p>And our final dating tip for men…</p>
<p><strong>Teasing Her When She “Tests” You</strong></p>
<p>Okay, so now that you know how boring it is to do whatever a woman wants, you’re probably wondering why so many women try to control their man. Simple… she&#8217;s testing you to see if you&#8217;re man enough to stay the course or if you&#8217;ll fold up like a dish towel. Needless to say, most men fail these tests and end up on a woman’s “friends list.”</p>
<p>It’s very easy to spot these tests because most of the time they’re unreasonable or downright silly. The best way to “pass” these tests is to tease her in a playful and humorous way for being silly or unreasonable. As soon as you do this, you’ll automatically put yourself head and shoulders above 90% of the male population.</p>
<p>So use these three tips starting today and prepare to be made at the difference it makes in your dating life. Then you can become the talk of your social circle as every one of your male friends wonders where you learned how to flirt with women.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you spending Friday nights watching TV alone? Do you get  butterflies in your stomach at the thought of meeting new people and  starting a conversation? Having trouble meeting your kind of person? You  are not alone. Millions of others, just like you, want to find a date  too. All you have to know is how to. Increase your chances of meeting  likeminded people and getting them to agree to date you (or to even ask  you for a date).</p>
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<p><strong>According to an online survey conducted in 2010, 58.4% of the  respondents said it was “very difficult” to find someone they would  love to date. The same survey also revealed that 67.8% of the people  felt “under confident about getting a date.” Are you one of them?</strong></p>
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		<title>Where to Meet Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 16:32:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For many men who are looking to breathe some life into their dating life, knowing where to meet women is one of the first, and most annoying, challenges that they face. After all, even if you know how approach women and how to attract women, you still have to know where you can find them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For many men who are looking to breathe some life into their dating life, knowing where to meet women is one of the first, and most annoying, challenges that they face. After all, even if you know how approach women and how to attract women, you still have to know where you can find them and where they’ll be open to being approached and asked out on a date. So if you’re ready to get your dating life together, here are a few places to start as your looking for where to meet women…</p>
<p><strong>Where to Meet Women: Online First</strong></p>
<p>It used to be that guys who were wondering where to meet women had to go to all kinds of places they didn’t want to just so that they could find a woman who they <em>might </em>be interested in. What an incredible waste of time that can be, especially considering that the exact type of women looking for has to be in the exact right place at the exact right time. Blech! We’re men…we don’t have that kind of time to mess around.</p>
<p>We want to go out and find what we’re looking for and get down to business in asking for a date. Well, if that&#8217;s the way that you feel, you need to start using the power of the internet to increase your dating options. Are you thinking that this is only for desperate losers? Well, that might have been true about 10 years ago&#8230;but times have changed.</p>
<p>Now, the internet is a perfect way to decide where to meet women and to get to know them. As soon as you finish reading this article, go to a dating site or a social networking site and set up a profile. This will increase your options and keep you from thinking that there aren’t enough options out there for you when it comes to dating…</p>
<p>For best results, do the meeting online, but make sure that you&#8217;re moving the interaction into the “real world” as soon as possible.</p>
<p><strong>Where to Meet Women: Offline Locations</strong></p>
<p>If you’re wondering where to meet women, you’ve probably already gone down the list of options in regard to nightclubs, bars and other places where any women who is halfway attractive can count on being approached at least a dozen times a night. When it comes to this, it&#8217;s a good idea for you to look at what the majority is doing and to do the opposite. In other words, ask yourself what kind of casual places these women would be going to everyday: the store, a coffeehouse, a place to have lunch, the park etc.</p>
<p>When women are in these places, they are less likely to be approached and have their “pick up radar” on minimum intensity. This means that they&#8217;ll probably be a lot more open to your approach. For best results, choose places where she won&#8217;t be in a hurry and will actually have the time to talk to you.</p>
<p><strong>The Secret Ingredient for Where to Meet Women</strong></p>
<p>In spite of all the great places out there to meet single women, there is one thing which will make a world of difference in regard to the options you have; your social circle. If you have a strong social circle and establish the reputation as a man of high value, you&#8217;ll probably never have to worry about where to meet women… your social circle will bring them to you.</p>
<p>So as you’re finding the places where single women hang out and as you’re connecting with them on the Internet, make it your primary goal to build a strong social circle in the process. Pretty soon, you’ll never have to ask yourself where to meet women again.</p>
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		<title>How to Pick Up Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 16:32:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Want to know how to pick up women? If so, the first thing to understand is that you&#8217;re actually making the effort to develop a skill that 99% of the male population doesn&#8217;t have a clue about…so good for you. The first thing to understand is that knowing how to approach women and how to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Want to know how to pick up women? If so, the first thing to understand is that you&#8217;re actually making the effort to develop a skill that 99% of the male population doesn&#8217;t have a clue about…so good for you. The first thing to understand is that knowing how to approach women and how to attract women isn’t some mystical enchanting gift set you’re either born with or not born with.</p>
<p>Instead, it’s a skill which can be learned just like any other skill: through consistent practice and measuring of what&#8217;s working and what&#8217;s not working. But if you’re too lazy to go through all that painstaking trial and error, here are three tips which will help you to learn how to pick up women…</p>
<p><strong>First: Go Where the Fish Are</strong></p>
<p>This might sound like simple advice when it comes to learning how to pick up women, but most men make the mistake of trying to approach women in places where the competition is really hot. For example: bars, night clubs…all those places where women go and get hit on by 55 guys per minute while they are just trying to hang out with her friends.</p>
<p>Sure, these places might be great to go if you&#8217;re looking to get a lot of practice, but you’re not terribly interested in getting a lot of quality results. But if you start approaching women at unsuspecting places: parks, coffee houses, bookstores, libraries etc…you’ll find that there’s a lot less competition and therefore women don&#8217;t have their “pick up radar” on high security mode.</p>
<p><strong>Second: Build Trust First</strong></p>
<p>One of the biggest secrets of how to pick up women is being able to build trust quickly. But how do you do this when it’s obvious that you&#8217;re approaching her for one reason and one reason only? Easy, don’t approach her until you’ve built trust. For example, if she’s sitting in a book store reading a book, sit in a chair near her. After a few minutes, tell her that you’re going to the bathroom and ask her to watch your seat.</p>
<p>This will communicate a subtle message that you trust her, and extending trust to people almost always inspires them to reciprocate trust. Then of course, you say thanks when you return, and she’ll probably be much more approachable.</p>
<p>TIP: for best results, make a joke out of this and say: “I’m going to run to the bathroom, if anyone touches my lap top, I need you to tackle them.” After this, it ought to be much easier to engage her in a conversation…and then you move to the last step…</p>
<p><strong>Third: Use the “Gotta Go Close”</strong></p>
<p>Once you have a bit of a conversation going, pretend that you just got a text message from a friend of yours and that you “have to go.” This kind of “interruption” will create an opportunity for you to say: “I need to go, but I’d like to have this conversation, what are you doing on…”</p>
<p>And of course, you ask for the date at this time, and since the conversation was interrupted, you’ll still be leaving her with the sense that you’re not needy, that you have a life and that you and her still have something to talk about.</p>
<p>Practice the above strategy, and remember that knowing how to pick up women is a skill which can be learned through practice. After just a few times, you’ll be comfortable and other men will be asking you for advice on how to pick up women.</p>
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		<title>Dating Tips For Men</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As you know dating tips for men are all over the place these days…but when it comes to learning how to attract beautiful women or how to get a girlfriend, many of the “tips” just don’t get the job done. You’ve probably read these kinds of dating tips for men before: go where the single [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As you know dating tips for men are all over the place these days…but when it comes to learning how to attract beautiful women or how to get a girlfriend, many of the “tips” just don’t get the job done. You’ve probably read these kinds of dating tips for men before: go where the single women are, talk to them, use their name in conversations, smile, treat her like a lady… blah, blah, blah.</p>
<p>Okay, all those things are nice…so why aren’t they working for you? If you’re wondering about this, then you’re not alone. Most men have no idea how to attract beautiful women because they&#8217;re such a shortage of quality dating advice available. The following tips are three of the most effective for getting your solid results fast…</p>
<p>Three Powerful Dating Tips for Men</p>
<p><strong>Get Online</strong></p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t yet created an online dating profile because you think online dating is for “losers,” it’s time to get over the stigma and get an online profile. Sure, 10 years ago it might have been a little odd for someone to be trying to find a date online. But today, the Internet is an enormous global “hang out” where people have Facebook profiles, twitter accounts and even their own blogs and websites.</p>
<p>Translation: if you haven&#8217;t expanded your search for the right woman to the internet, you’re behind the times. Online dating sites are not only places where you can meet women, they are places where you can learn online dating tips for men and get some practice in getting women to respond to you.</p>
<p><strong>Get Your Life Together</strong></p>
<p>This is probably one of the most unpopular dating tips for men…but it’s also one of the most effective. Dating is something which affects your entire lifestyle and vice versa. So if you want to have a great dating life, you have to focus on becoming the kind of man who can attract and keep quality women in his life.</p>
<p>Every man wants to know how to attract beautiful women or how to get a girlfriend. But few men are ready to do the work to become the man they need to become in order to attract an amazing woman into their lives. Women are looking for men who are happy and fulfilled in their career, or take care of their health and who have a reasonable amount of financial security.</p>
<p>So have a look at your life, ask yourself what kind of a woman you want to attract, and be honest about what kind of a man you have to become to get what you want.</p>
<p>And the last of our three dating tips for men…</p>
<p><strong>Set a High Value on Yourself</strong></p>
<p>Do you get intimidated when you see a really attractive woman? Do you sometimes feel the kind of woman you really want to date are “out of your league?” Are you crushed when a woman rejects you because you can&#8217;t bear the thought of not having her in your life? If so, you’re not putting a high enough value on yourself as a man.</p>
<p>In case you haven&#8217;t realized it, putting a low value on yourself is death to your self esteem and sense of confidence. This is also death to your dating life, since confidence is the number one trait which women are attracted to in men.</p>
<p>So put a high value on yourself, even if you don’t yet “believe” it or “feel” it. After a while, you’ll find that your beliefs and feelings will catch up if you’re persistent in changing your thinking.</p>
<p>So these are three dating tips for men that can make a big difference in your life if you just put them into practice: get online, get your life together and put a high value on yourself. These alone will bring you results if you’re persistent and determined.<span id="_marker"> </span></p>
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